Why...why not...why not me....why not now.... James Allen
Research states that the average 4 year old asks up to 400 questions per day, many of which are simply, 'why?'. Ask any parent if they have ever said 'Because I told you so'. As they age, they ask fewer questions. Maybe this is because they have learned the answers, or they simply run out of energy to ask. There is no doubt that as we age our curiosity decreases. We begin to evolve into the world of adults that is results driven and we are no longer encouraged to question but to accept the status quo.
Simon Sinek's Golden Circle model of 'Why, How and What' (on TED) espouses that we should always start with the 'why?'. This serves as a fundamental driver for our lives and once you discover yours, what you do and how you do it will find alignment bringing immense joy and satisfaction. Recently a number of successful business people came to me asking how to find purpose in their lives. The short answer is simply Asking why five times will get to the heart of any matter. anon
When you find your 'why' you find a way to make it happen. Eric Thomas
For me, I have known for years my why is to serve, to leave a positive and lasting impact onto the lives of others.
How I do so is by bringing simple effective ancient practices to the consciousness of modern man
What are my offerings of gong relaxations, teaching, performing, walking on labyrinths, kundalini yoga and self awareness workshops.
I am where I am today because I lead with my 'why'. This is a life of simplicity, integrity and authenticity. It is also a life of challenges, hurdles and false starts, however somehow the path find s me. Five years ago I would never have thought I would be where I am today.
He who has a why can endure a how. F. Nietzscche
Being flexible, trusting your intuition and serving your 'why' will give you what you need. It may be a road less travelled, it may require letting go and courage, it may even be lonely. No one ever said life was meant to be easy. It is up to you to make it one of meaning.
This week I invite you to find your 'why' by asking the question five times.