If they behave as though they can live without you, let them.
This week my son moves to Vancouver to start a new chapter in his life. To pursue his dream of working in his chosen field of 3D special effects, to use his university degree and be recognised for his work. In a perfect world he would already have a signed contract.
Q: Where do I go from here?
A: Out of your comfort zone to follow your dreams.
The reality is, he is moving to the most expensive city in Canada to be close to the industry, has no job and limited contacts.
Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go. Herman Hesse
My first instinct as a mother is to protect and support. But this is time for me to step back, and to recognise that this too is love, giving someone the freedom to exist and be happy even if it must be without you. V. Tugaleva
He is ready to have a new story to write and it looks nothing like his past. As he leans into action it will take him closer to his dreams, and bit by bit fear will move out of his way. anon He is filled with enthusiasm mixed with a bit of trepidation but positive and excited to turn this page into independence.
your life has purpose
your story is important
your dreams count
your voice matters
you were born to make an impact...... make it count, make it interesting.
I am so proud.